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Twentysomethings: Why I Have a Job

About a year and half ago I was given the task of creating something to help reach twentysomethings. I was 22, fresh out of college, engaged to be married, and had been working as an editorial intern for only a few short months.

Randall House, the company that owns The Brink, didn't really know what they wanted to do, just that something needed to be done to help retain or link the vacated twentysomethings back to church and God.

They sort of dumped the task into my lap. I love challenges, so I ran with it. Hard.

The cool thing is that although I didn't point out the need for something like this to happen, I sort of adopted it after it was assigned to me, and the more and more I thought and prayed about it, the more I had a burden for it. I sort of feel like Isaiah did when God called him (Isaiah 6). God pointed out a need and Isaiah said, "I'll do it!" After that he poured himself into that opportunity, and prophesied about the coming of Christ, the One who would redeem all who will come to Him. Before God called Isaiah, the future prophet didn't know what the need was. He just listened to God and responded.

I spent the next 4 or 5 months doing research, dreaming, praying, doing more research, talking to people, observing, trying to soak everything I could about young adults. I wanted to know what made our generation tick. What were we involved in? Why were we involved in it? What do we care about? What was it about church that was so repulsive to us? Is there anyone actually reaching young adults?

What I learned was vital in developing The Brink. I'll try to break it down to the four main "characteristics" I learned about our generation (gen Y, twentysomethings, young adults):

  1. We are looking for something real, authentic, or genuine. This theme is all over the place. Take reality TV as one obvious example. You and I don't really care about a show being polished and professional. We just want to see the juicy, gorry details about the personal lives of people. We want to see them screw up, get embarassed, get promoted, whatever. Another example you might take is Chris Martin and the band Coldplay. I love Coldplay (as do millions more). Why? I don't really think it's because he has an amazing voice per say. I think it's because there is a genuineness to his voice. He just sounds like some above average singer who writes cool music that talks about stuff that I actually think. So I connect with that.
  2. We want to stay connected to a community of friends. The Internet is our baby (thanks Al Gore!). It was our generation that adopted it and because of that we live and breath in it. This enables us to constantly stay connected to our friends. Friends are very, very important to us. It makes sense too because friends are the only constant our generation had throughout adolescence. Our parents divorced (generally speaking) because dad worked too much or had an affair with his secretary. Or grandma raised us and try as she might, just couldn't connect. So we sort of grew up with friends, learning life as we went along with them and Zack Morris. As a result, we want to be connected with each other, spending time together, doing life together. 
  3. We are very, very skeptical. And in my opinion, we have every reason to be. Think about it. We've been marketed to our entire lives. I can remember commercials from when I was 6 or so. Not that commercials are intrinsically evil or anything, it's just that we've figured out that people (companies) lie in order to sell their product. Hamburgers aren't really as big or as perfectly put together as they are on billboards. Leaders of other companies like Enron will lie, cheat, and steal to get ahead. Megachurch pastors have affairs. So yes, we are very skeptical, and rightfully so.
  4. We want to make a difference. In a culture where there isn't much with substance, we want our lives to count. We will gladly give incredible amounts of our time and money to a cause we believe in. Whether it's Darfur, Tom's Shoes, or volunteering for something, we put our time and money where out mouth is.

This is who The Brink is for.

For those of you who might be older and are reading this because you are wanting to reach twentysomethings, there will probably be some things printed in the magazine that make you a bit uncomfortable. And there might be a conversation or two on this site that would probably be better left un-read by some. And you know what, that's ok. If you want to reach twentysomethings, you have to meet them where they are without expecting them to act like something they're not.

If you're a twentysomething who is still in church, welcome to the conversation. Join me in welcoming our friends back as they come.

If you're a twentysomething who has left the church for whatever reason, I want to personally welcome you to the conversation.

Jacob

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17 Comments
Jason Taylor
Jul 17, 2009
02:24 pm
Jacob, This thing is awesome!!! I am glad you have attempted for God the dream He has given you. I believe that this is what we need to raise up a generation of twentysomethings to retake the current church culture so that the next generation can be the hands and feet of Jesus! Thanks for being willing to risk crazy for Jesus!!
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jkriggs
Jul 17, 2009
06:39 pm
Looks good bro - proud of what your doing.
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Aaron Baldridge
Jul 18, 2009
08:32 am
Jacob, I like what I have seen so far! Think this is going to be a great tool for the Kingdom. Thanks for your hard work and heart for ministry.
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Jacob
Jul 27, 2009
12:21 pm
Hey thanks guys! Let's spread the word!
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Phill Lytle
Jul 28, 2009
04:52 am
I would like to second the previous comments. (Or would it be more accurate to say fourth?) The site looks good and even though I am no longer in my 20's, I still see enough wiggle room in the "somethings" to find some common ground. Keep up the good work.
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DGibson
Jul 28, 2009
10:39 pm
Hey bro, it's such a blessing having you as a friend. It's been incredible watching this turn from just a simple idea into a real thing. You and everyone else have done an incredible job. I know that God is going to use this in amazing ways to strengthen and build His Kingdom.
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ElenaLisvato
Aug 06, 2009
04:31 am
Hi, I can’t understand how to add your site in my rss reader. Can you Help me, please :)
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Jacob
Aug 06, 2009
06:33 am
If you are a real person Elena, then scroll to the top of the page and click the RSS button (orange with 3 stripes) in the top right corner. You can then subscribe to individual topics or everything. Hope that helps.
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Brandon
Aug 06, 2009
01:30 pm
Congrats on the new site. I am really sorry about not getting to make it to the meeting in Cincinnati. Keep me updated.
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Zack Anderson
Sep 13, 2009
07:00 am
I think it is great! You have done a great job indeed. Our denomination is famous for losing our young people after high school. I just started the Brink in my church last Sunday and had a great turn out. Looking forward to growing this group.
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Jessica
Oct 07, 2009
07:46 am
Hey Jacob, just wanted to say I'm so glad this site and the mag are up and running! I've been looking for something like this for a while now.
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Katherine Kelly
Nov 11, 2009
11:31 am
This brings back to mind something that my grandfather pretty much always said... However it is most likely inappropriate at this time...
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Jacob
Nov 12, 2009
01:17 pm
buyvigrx and curmudgeon, I think you are bots, so I am deleting you. :-) sorry.
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Reseller Hosting
Jan 10, 2010
10:25 pm
Your blog keeps getting better and better! Your older articles are not as good as newer ones you have a lot more creativity and originality now keep it up!
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Adam Davis
Feb 19, 2010
12:47 am
You have to express more your opinion to attract more readers, because just a video or plain text without any personal approach is not that valuable. But it is just form my point of view
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Alfonzo Lewis
Feb 20, 2010
12:53 am
You have really great taste on catch article titles, even when you are not interested in this topic you push to read it
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Booker Hayes
Feb 21, 2010
05:39 am
I would appreciate more visual materials, to make your blog more attractive, but your writing style really compensates it. But there is always place for improvement
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